I'm still relatively new on this site so I haven't had a chance to get to know who's who.
In another thread about deleted posts I mentioned that I'm not a fan of a "P.C." world & what has happened to Ben is part of why.
He's now been made to feel wrong for having his own thoughts, feelings, & problems because someone else may have different thoughts, feelings & problems.
I'm sure the site has liability reasons for not allowing such topics to be discussed. I also know that there are sites specifically geared towards those topics.
However, this is the site that has our online peers. People who are connected by more positive things but still have valid experience & insight.
Instead of everyone feeling that they can share their thoughts, feelings & problems thus presenting an opportunity for open discussion there is one less way to get through something.
I have worked through my own issues a long time ago. At that time I was not on any forums of any kind. It would have been nice to have been able to reach out to anyone. There are some situations where you just need to vent & some where you don't need judgement of someone you are close to in real life.
Now I'm not suggesting this site is a legitimate alternative to actual therapy. I'd like to think most of us would include a suggestion to seek professional help when dealing with serious issues.
That being said just talking about what's on your mind & discovering other people (like you) have faced similar issues & come out ok-ish is of great comfort.
Last edited: Sep 28, 2020