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The value of honest feedback

Discussion in 'Sidewinders Bar & Grille' started by knh555, May 17, 2017.

  1. knh555

    knh555 Strat-O-Master

    Age:
    45
    555
    Dec 6, 2016
    Massachusetts
    I've done a little collaboration on the board sharing different tracks and jointly contributing to an original tune, but this past week, I got some great advice via PM from @mjark on a track where his only contribution was wonderfully honest feedback. After I posted a possible track for this week's jam, the general consensus was it was a bit too active and already "complete". I didn't entirely agree with that, but no big deal. This is music after all. I decided to complete my tune, jam or no jam.

    I shared it with @mjark. He rightly pointed out the lead was way too dense and reminded me of the value of restraint. I know better, but clearly had lost sight. I want to publicly thank him for pushing me to do better. And that's the point. While I think it's important not to chase other people's ideas for what your music should be, it's also useful to listen to criticism that resonates with your tastes and goals.

    Anyway, here's what I ended up coming up with. It may be too busy for some tastes, not enough for others, and everything I do certainly could be mixed better, but it's a much better product for @mjark's assistance - for simply taking a little time.

    Note that another friend of mine thought my original take was spot on. In the end, I agreed with @mjark and reworked it extensively.




    Thanks @mjark!
     
    Last edited: May 18, 2017

  2. rolandson

    rolandson Senior Stratmaster

    Jul 13, 2015
    Cascadia
    Can't be measured, only appreciated.
     
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  3. fezz parka

    fezz parka Wiggler of Sticks Strat-Talk Supporter

    Honest feedback is priceless when the person receiving the feedback is open to it. Kudos to you for having an open mind and listening. FWIW, you are rare. :D
     
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  5. rolandson

    rolandson Senior Stratmaster

    Jul 13, 2015
    Cascadia
    I was asked once to help a friend with his aspirations of songwriting. I stopped when it became evident that this fellow was unable to differentiate between criticism and critique. Anything other than absolute praise was viewed as a personal attack, to be violently defended.

    That was more work than I was willing to undertake.
     

  6. fezz parka

    fezz parka Wiggler of Sticks Strat-Talk Supporter

    Branford's take on that type (strong, but accurate language in this clip):

     

  7. abnormaltoy

    abnormaltoy Thread derailer Strat-Talk Supporter

    Apr 28, 2013
    Tucson

    Wowee, that is a great (if only because I agree with it) video...saving it and spreading it like the Johnny Appleseed of video.

    Where is the bowing down smiley...thanks!
     
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  8. FormerTeleGuy

    FormerTeleGuy Senior Stratmaster

    Nov 17, 2013
    Oak Lawn, IL
    so sad, so true...so waiting for this to go off the rails political.....
     
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  9. Jason D

    Jason D Senior Stratmaster

    Age:
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    Jan 30, 2016
    Fulton MO
    Being receptive to feedback is huge key to success in this thing we call life. Another key to success is separating the constructive critics from the "blow hards".

    Great things in life are rarely achieved without help from others.
     
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  10. mjark

    mjark Senior Stratmaster

    Jul 15, 2015
    Maryland
    Thanks Kevin.
     
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  11. mshivy

    mshivy Most Honored Senior Member

    Critique is just another persons opinion.

    The Marsalis brothers may be great technicians and historians, but the critique on Wyton is that he has great chops and lacks soul.
    I'm sure the Marsalis brothers would have said the young Cassius Clay couldn't punch and didn't know how to fight.
    Sometimes your "flaws" are what make you unique.

    Louis Armstrong didn't care for Charlie Parker or bebop as a whole- it's a damn good thing Parker didn't listen to his Criticism.
    I'm glad @mjark and @knh555 have a good friendship and rapport -it's nice to hear.
    I would just like to point out that sometimes it's good to follow your own instincts and be yourself-
     
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  12. mjark

    mjark Senior Stratmaster

    Jul 15, 2015
    Maryland
    Well I certainly don't offer my opinions as any kind of expertise or claim any authority whatsoever however, I believe criticism can be valuable and I want it from those I think have expertise. I've found that no matter how hard I might want otherwise, I'm always myself. Points of view from elsewhere can be enlightening.
     
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  13. knh555

    knh555 Strat-O-Master

    Age:
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    555
    Dec 6, 2016
    Massachusetts
    Bingo. I don't think my original comments involved giving up my own decision-making regarding my music. But different perspectives are just that. Perspectives you get from elsewhere. It's up to the artist to decide what outside influences are useful.
     

  14. Dadocaster

    Dadocaster Most Honored Senior Member Strat-Talk Supporter

    Last time you posted this, I ended up in the cornfield. :D:D:D:D:D

    (Might have been David that posted it.)
     
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  15. mad axe man

    mad axe man Senior Stratmaster

    Jul 23, 2016
    ontario canada
    i think its a great tune with great playing but if i were mixing it i would add alot more compression to the overall mix..it kinda sounds like the guitars are fighting each other right now
     

  16. Ultra91

    Ultra91 Strat-Talk Member

    Age:
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    May 2, 2017
    Tecumseh, OK
    Where this discussion sometimes goes off the rails is over the difference between "opinion" and "evaluation" .. Puppies have opinions. We all do. But opinion at the end of the day doesn't mean squat. Drunks who tell us we are the next Page, Beck, Vai, or Knopfler have an opinion of our ability that is well intentioned but valueless. They are probably not qualified to "evaluate" our abilities in order to form a meaningful "opinion".
    The point is just be aware of who is doing the evaluation so you can determine whether their opinion has merit. The OP trusts the feedback (evaluation) he received. He will not give equal weight to everyone that comments on his work. I hope this made some sense and that I haven't offended anyone..........ya never know these days..
     
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  17. fezz parka

    fezz parka Wiggler of Sticks Strat-Talk Supporter

    Naw, that was me. I agree with Branford 100%.
     
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  18. knh555

    knh555 Strat-O-Master

    Age:
    45
    555
    Dec 6, 2016
    Massachusetts
    I do struggle with production and actually agree with your assessment. But I've also listened to this tune too many times recently and need a break from it. This might be a good one for me to step away from and come back to later with fresh ears. Thanks for the feedback. I'll take it from here. ;)
     

  19. Groovey

    Groovey Senior Stratmaster

    Age:
    57
    Nov 17, 2016
    NC. USA
    Hoe many times have we heard, "no its nice." "It looks good, on you." Real, honest, criticism is hard to find.
     

  20. gofmusic

    gofmusic Senior Stratmaster

    Age:
    30
    Sep 24, 2013
    Montevideo
    Honest opinions are vital when making music of your own. I only know 3 people I fully trust on this subject. We agreed that wed always be honest to each other, brutally honest, no filters, thats on damn healthy agreement to have with your music mates.
     

  21. Sarnodude

    Sarnodude Senior Stratmaster

    Sep 26, 2015
    Mukilteo
    A generation raised on an unending stream of big lies isn't likely to be able to handle truth.
     
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