After a 6 month rekindling of an old flame, the wick is pinched out. I value my sanity more than her company. Feelings are still intact but not worth it to me. People react in different ways...she is a screamer if upset. For the crime of nodding off in bed during the night during a movie, I am met with , "What are you doing? You are not paying attention to the movie" Absurd It would seem that if I do not present the mood/"energy" she wants to see then she attacks." You just don't get it do you?" " You need to leave right now" and i get to hear the meltdown after I close the door on my way out. Intimacy= high alert anxiety attack and I have no idea given that she has been in psychotherapy for 35yrs and I have not...it must make her a doctor in her mind. I am told what my problems are and how to fix them. See ya, sucks to be ya. This is the gal who picked out the 335 I bought, me because I liked it, she because she liked the way it looks.